Sunday, October 2, 2022
October
Saturday, October 1, 2022
Retirement and the 1st Nine Weeks of School
I began the 22-23 school year in the Ozarks on a girls weekend with two high school friends. We went on a boat ride, had drinks at a lakeside bar, and spent a lot of time catching up. I caught up with the grandkids on the phone to find out how their days had gone. I didn't miss my classroom or teaching at all. I think my replacement (former student) summed it up best: "I had no idea teaching was such hard work. My teachers made it look so easy. I am exhausted every night." So true. It is nice not to be exhausted.
The rest of that trip involved a winery with a pool, tons of games of scrabble, and lots of '70's music. It was relaxing and so much fun. Now, I am ready for a trip with the Mr. (Plans are in the works.)
Once I was home again with school in session, I found I missed my colleagues and former students. It is always good to run into one of them and catch up.
After teaching 2 1/2 years during Covid and never having it, I was stunned when the Mr. came down with Covid on Labor Day and I got it a few days later. It wasn't much fun, though mainly like a bad cold. Sometimes, I don't have much stamina, and I wonder if it is a lingering symptom of the disease. It is finally getting a little better.
I have loved having time to spend with grandkids. When K and CT both came down with Covid, we kept the two girls a couple of nights, took them to school and picked them up after, and were able to make a few runs for things they needed. I spent Friday with L and E. E's school was out for Parent/Teacher conferences, so we met halfway and walked at a lake, shopped for books, and enjoyed lunch. I was also able to help out with the little girls on an inservice day and helped them make an anniversary present for their parents. I know if I had been teaching, none of these things would have happened.
So what else have I been doing? Thursday morning coffees with other retired women in town, reading, and subbing. I am NOT subbing in classrooms, but for the librarian and the library aide. I hated when the library was closed when they were absent, so I told them to let me know and I would fill in. I have spent a few days in the high school library in the morning and the middle school library in the afternoon. I check books in and out and re-shelve them. Quite a few former students and colleagues will stop in to see me. It is good to catch up. Mainly, I find myself reading. Shocker! Now, that Covid seems to be over in our corner of Tiny Town, I plan to spend a few days with Dad. Again, none of these things would have happened if I had been teaching.
Oh, and the Mr. and I have started swimming at the YMCA five mornings a week. He water walks, and I tread water. (My shoulders are shot, and I can mainly use my legs for treading water.)
So far, retirement is quite enjoyable.
Girls WeekendSunday, July 31, 2022
Latest Favorites
I haven't done a list of favorites in a long time, so here is the list of what I am loving:
*Diet Pepsi in the 7 ounce can. I am trying to cut back, and these little gems sure do help. (I wish Quick Stops and Caseys sold soda in these little cans.)
*Frozen drinks in those little ice pop packages: Bahama Mamas, Margaritas, and Hurricanes. On these miserably hot days, they just hit the spot.
*Hey Dudes. These slip on, casual shoes are comfy and can be tossed into the washer, too. The biggest problem? Choosing the color or fabric for the next pair I will buy. There are too many choices!
*Five year journals. The one I am using is called the Line A Day 5 year journal. I am on year three in this journal, and it is fun to see what was happening on this date in the last couple of years. I started this journal in 2020 before the pandemic hit. I had forgotten everything we had gone through for the last two years in education. I'm so glad I documented all of that. This also made a great retirement gift for my sweet SIL. (By the way, since there is only room to write 4 or 5 sentences, it is easy to write in it every day. When I'm on vacation I keep notes on my phone to add when I return.)
*Bible app on my phone. Besides having daily reading plans on all kinds of subjects, they also have daily scripture and of course, the entire Bible at my fingertips.
*Wordle and Quordle. I admit. I am hooked on these online games. I play The NY Times wordle every morning with my coffee. I'm sure is it good for my brain, and it is just fun.
*Backyard Birds. Cardinals, Robins, Blue Jays, Finches, and Orioles are my favorites. And of course, I have to feed the squirrels to keep them out of the bird feeders, though they are such little pigs that they eat their food and still bother my feeders.
And there is my July 2022 list of favorites.
Monday, July 18, 2022
The Rest of the Story
After diving into retirement, I hit a bit of a snag.
Dad has been in the hospital for the past few weeks. They moved him to the swing bed, and we are now looking into Assisted Living. At 93 years of age, it is amazing that he has been able to live at the farm by himself until this time, but he needs the regular meals and regular doses of medicine.
I've made quite a few trips to the home town to see him--sometimes 3 or 4 times a week. So any other projects and even quite a bit of reading have been put on hold.
I think we'll all rest easier knowing that he is being looked after, and yet still has a place of his own. I'll still run down a couple of times a week, but I should have time to start on some of the major cleaning that needs to be done.
My main accomplishment so far was clearing the dining room table, which sounds like no big deal, but this is where I dumped everything when I cleaned out my classroom. Progress. Yea me!
Sunday, July 10, 2022
Retired Reading #1
I was going to call this Summer Reading. I sometimes forget that I am retired, and that this can be year-round reading from now on. (Though if it is, the house may fall down around me.) Going forward, I might have to limit myself to a book a week, so I have time for some other activities. That being said, I really needed this "drowning" myself in books.
Seven weeks into retirement and I am reading book #19.
Here are the books that stand out or that I have loved:
The Wild Light by Jeff Zentner
Golden Girl by Elin Hilderbrand
The Paris Library by Janet Skeslien Charles
Sex and Vanity by Kevin Kwan
The People We Meet on Vacation by Emily Henry
Lessons in Chemistry by Bonnie Garmes
The Reading List by Sara Nisha Adams
Killers of the Flower Moon by David Grann
Book Lovers by Emily Henry
Fire Keeper's Daughter by Angeline Boully
That Summer by Jennifer Weiner
Water for Flowers by Valerie Perrin
I am working on The Lincoln Highway by Amor Towles which will probably make this list, too. There are a few other books that I have read, but didn't necessarily love. I even tried a re-read of a 2006 book that has been mentioned quite a bit lately. I couldn't make it through it this time, and I'm not sure how I muddled through it to begin with. She might be a popular author, but that book was ridiculously wordy and full of random, somewhat unimportant details that signified nothing.
My reading will slow down for awhile, as I feel like I am ready to accomplish a few other things. That being said, my Kindle will always be in my purse, and I'll keep a few holds in the eLibrary.
Happy Reading!
Friday, July 1, 2022
The Summer of Ugly Feet
Yes, that is the official name of this summer at our house.
I love pedicures. I love purple, blue, and mauve colored toes. I love soaking my feet in a pedicure tub, while a massage chair goes to work on my back.
But... then this summer, I have a toenail fungus that needs to be treated with a topical solution that can't penetrate polish. Ugh. There will be 48 weeks of daily application. 48 weeks. I'm on week two and already mourning pretty toes.
The Mr., in his infinite wisdom, says one foot looks worse that the other, so just cross your feet at the ankle and keep the ugly toe back. He's so helpful.
Let's hope this prescription does the trick. I know the topical solution works better if you take the prescription pill, too--but I am electing not to take the pill. (My entire toenail isn't affected, just the tips of my two big toes.) I figure between blood pressure medicine, shingles shots, and Covid and flu vaccines, this body has enough medicine in it for one year.
So now I have ugly feet. I don't care how cute the sandals are, they aren't all that cute with unpolished toes. I keep telling myself that 48 weeks will be worth it if I get rid of this stuff. I've got to change that "IF" to a "WHEN" I get rid of this stuff.
We shall see.
Thursday, June 30, 2022
The Teachings of Covid
I've learned a lot in the last couple of years. Covid was the teacher, and I was the student. These are the things that I've learned:
1. I still have the same introverted qualities that I had at age 4 where I'd hide behind my mom's long skirts and pretend like I couldn't see people. I spent years trying to be more outgoing, and I succeeded for 50 years, but the introvert is still there. I like being at home.
2. I love not going inside stores to shop. Online grocery shopping and on-site pickup have been one of the best perks of Covid. I don't miss changing rooms or crowded stores. I order online and send it back if it isn't what I was looking for.
3. Watching the wildlife in our backyard has brought me so much enjoyment. I feed orioles, hummingbirds, cardinals, robins, blue jays, and even swarms of finches. Squirrels drive me crazy, but I love watching these little pests, too. Foxes, rabbits, and deer all visit the backyard. There is always something to see out our back windows.
4. Slippers and pj pants are my favorite clothes. Oh, I still love jeans and flip flops, but I have a new appreciation for "home" clothes.
5. Faces are important. I wore masks, and I still do occasionally. (Sometimes, I feel anxiety without one.) Teaching, when everyone was in a mask, was challenging. I relied on smiles and smirks to sell a point or understand how my kids were feeling. I became an expert at reading eyes, but I still prefer the smiles, smirks, and even grimaces of teenagers.
I won't get into zoom classes or online agendas, assignments, and grading. Just thinking about that time makes my head swim, but eventually, it became an important part of in-person classes, too. I learned to shut off the chat feature in zoom meetings unless I wanted to see things like; "I'd tell her she is muted, but this is actually kind of fun." "Anyone want to log out of here and game?" "Are you even wearing pants?" "Dude, turn off your music." Yeah, it was really fun teaching in zoom rooms.
Wednesday, June 29, 2022
The Retired Teacher
Tuesday, December 31, 2019
2019 in Review
Well, for one thing, you can tell that this year got a lot busier once school started. Sheesh! I haven't been on this blog since August.
*We began the year celebrating Dad's 90th birthday with a huge family party. It was so much fun. I also applied for and received what I hope will be my last teaching certificate. (I'm guessing 2-3 years left.)
*In March, we watched the boys basketball team in the State Tournament. We also spent time in Salt Lake City--and actually were snowed in for a day or two.
The rest of the spring brought piano recitals, dance recitals where the Daddy's danced with their little princesses, music concerts, a funeral for our good friend Phil, and May day baskets.
Summer months brought ball games and Bible School, girls weekend in the Ozarks, Hamilton, a trip to Wisconsin (still can't get over their lavender fields), hummingbird feeders and an impromptu Harry Potter birthday party.
Actually, I spent a lot of my summer working on a new class I am teaching this year. And that also explains the lack of blogging. 1st semester was crazy.
The fall was full of football and school. I flew out to Virginia City, Nevada to see niece Em marry. What a pretty wedding and part of the country.
I spent quite a bit of this summer and fall dealing with stomach issues. I had several tests and am now on a new medicine. It seems to be helping. I have had a head cold for several months, and I hate to think what my fall would have been like if I hadn't had a flu shot.
The grandkids are now 2nd grade (8), Kindergarten (6), PreSchool (4), and No School (1). They are so much fun and quite entertaining. The two bonus grandkids are a Junior and a 6th grader.
We took family pictures in September and took a family pre-Christmas trip to Branson in November.
Little Big Brother and I are directing Pride and Predjudice in 2020. We held auditions in early December.
That pretty much sums up 2019.
Hoping you have a healthy, happy 2020.
Monday, August 19, 2019
Guilty Pleasures
The summer is full of guilty pleasures: lazy days, ice cream for no reason, and summer television. The best summer television guilty pleasure is Big Brother. And now I am into American Ninja Warrior. The Mr. thinks I've lost my mind. He might be right, but it wouldn't be summer without those two. I am grateful that the shows extend into the school year, as it feels like I am hanging on to just a bit of summer.
Sunday, August 18, 2019
Sundays
I am grateful for Sundays. Today's Sunday activities: Church and listening to the Bug sing a duet with her mom, Ice Cream Social after church, Pizza Hut Lunch with the kids, Grocery shopping, Work at school, and Hanging out with the Mr. I am grateful for really good days.
Saturday, August 17, 2019
Catch Up Weekends
So grateful for weekends to catch up. I used today for sleeping in (catching up on sleep) and working at school. Can I really be behind on classroom work after a day and a half of school? Yes! Yes, I can. (*sigh) Caught up on laundry and even managed to find time for a little relaxation. Sweet SIL and I had coffee at the new coffee shop that just opened in town.
Weekends are needed at this house.
Friday, August 16, 2019
Birthdays of Childhood
Today was a big day at the T House. The little Lulu had her first day of All-Day Preschool. She and the Bug are in the same school, so she is with the big kids. She looked so tiny with her backpack hitting her in the back of the knees. So sweet.
The only thing better than a first day of school is a birthday on the first full day of school. The Bug was in heaven. She had presents at breakfast, rainbow birthday cookies for her class, and dinner with her grandparents. I'm so grateful that she reminds me how exciting it was to have a birthday in childhood.
Thursday, August 15, 2019
The Excitement of 1st Days
Today is the first day of school for the students of the Tiny Town Schools. High School kids play it much cooler, but there is excitement in the halls, shiny faces, and new clothes and hair styles. I love seeing the changes from last spring when last year's sophomores swing by to talk.
Even the teachers feel the excitement and begin the year with energy and enthusiasm.
E had his first day of Kindergarten on Monday, and he is loving school!
The Bug started second grade today. She loves school, so she was excited. I hope that she loves school this much for the long haul.
I'm hoping that we all have a great day and year!
Wednesday, August 14, 2019
Anniversary
We were married 43 years ago tonight. I am grateful for the guy who cooks, scrapes windows, and fills my gas tank. He listens to me talk about school, gives me quiet time for grading, and puts up with me reading for hours at a time. He'll do laundry and clean if needed, and puts up Christmas lights. He is a great Dad and Papa. In fact, tomorrow he is doing day care duty for the Little Lulu whose first day of all-day Pre-School isn't until Friday. He's a pretty good guy. I'll probably keep him.
Tuesday, August 13, 2019
Flexibility
Today, I am grateful for flexibility. Now, I wish I was talking about my shoulders, legs, or back. Of course, none of them is very flexible these days.
I'm talking about people who go with the flow. When things pop up, they adapt. Lately, that has been me. The Bug is still trying to get over her sickness. Her Mom is already back at work, so the Bug has curled up with a blanket on a comfy chair in my room and gorged on Netflix movies. I've continued working on my classroom, and running to the copier or to the office. Her daddy and I shared custody today.
On Thursday, Papa is staying with Little Sis because her daycare is closed. None of us can miss the first day of school, so he is taking a morning off work. After the students leave, the little miss is coming up to school to hang out with me and her big sister. (Of course, this is all provided that she doesn't get sick, too.)
Flexibility is a good thing. It makes life easier. I'm not sure how rigid people make it through their day. Now, if some of that flexibility would make its way into my shoulders, my gratitude would know no end. Ay yi yi!
Monday, August 12, 2019
And so begins another year...
I am so grateful for an easing into the new school year. Today, our first day back, was filled with required meetings. Our cook made breakfast and lunch for the staff of the district. (And when she puts out a meal for staff, it is presented beautifully with creative table decorations and great food choices.)
Tomorrow is a flex day, meaning that we can put in additional hours prior to school starting and take the day off. OR, we can put in the hours prior to school starting and still come in and work on the flex day. (That would be me. I still have quite a bit to do.)
Wednesday, we have our high school staff meeting in the morning, and Freshman and New Students First Program in the afternoon, which means we run the 7 hour schedule with each class lasting seven minutes. We have just enough time to meet them, give them a bit of information about class, learn a bit about them, and send them on their way.
Thursday, the students arrive. We run a shortened schedule (approximately 30 minutes with each class) with an early release at 1:00 PM.
Friday is our first full day.
As you can see, we get to dip our toes in before taking the plunge. It works for me!
Sunday, August 11, 2019
Church Celebrations
Today was the Blessing of the Backpacks Service at our church. Kids brought their backpacks forward, and then the minister called anyone who worked in the schools to come forward also, and she had the congregation bless all of us and the school year ahead. Pretty sure I wasn't the only teacher who needed that.
I was especially grateful for a number of children who sang "This Little Light of Mine." The children's sermon was about letting the light of God shine through them in the coming school year, and then they each received a flashlight before they treated us to their song. There was a lot of light shining in our church this morning, and it didn't all come from flashlights. (Though there was plenty of that, too.)
Saturday, August 10, 2019
Early Birthday Celebrations
L and family came from Big City for an early birthday celebration for the Bug. We had lunch together and then a few had naps. We joined the T's for early afternoon presents, and that is when we noticed the Bug fading. There was less talking, and she cuddled up with Papa on the couch under a blanket. She tried to eat a Taco for supper, but when we sang "Happy Birthday" she cried through it.
If you guessed it, her fever was 101. She was crying because she wanted to eat her ice cream cake and couldn't. AND school was starting this week and she didn't want to miss the first day. And she was celebrating her birthday at school on the second day. AND she just felt crummy.
The B's were eager to leave the germs behind, so we all headed home. (Took some ice cream cake for the road. E would have hated missing that. Heck! Nana would have hated missing that, too.)
So the great idea of celebrating early came to a crashing halt. The best thing: at least L and family were there to see the Bug open their gift. (And I'll take any time I can get with my Big City Babes.) I'm grateful that next Friday night, the Mr. and I will celebrate the Bug again. And this time, hopefully no one will be sick. Fingers crossed.
Friday, August 9, 2019
Craft Evening
K invited me to an evening at Board and Brush. I'd never heard of it before, but I loved the crafts that we could choose from. Nobody has to do the same thing, unlike some of the other studios. There was distressing, sanding, staining, stenciling, and waxing the final project. We were there about three hours, but I loved my project. I don't think there was a single final project that I didn't love. They all looked so professional.
I was grateful for an evening with K, creating memories and awesome projects.









